Workshop #48: “Most Frequently Forgotten” List

Mar. 12, 2025

Even the best laid plans can hit a snag or two on the big day. Check out the list below for the most commonly forgotten wedding items or tasks:

Items:

  • Marriage license & rings (happens more often than you think)
  • Pen to sign license
  • A paper copy of your vows if writing your own
  • Medications the bride/groom may need during the day
  • Copy of timeline for photographer, DJ and any day-of helpers
  • Phone chargers
  • Ice for the bar/beverages (you need a LOT more than you think)
  • Vendor meals (many contractually require you to provide)
  • Cake plates/forks/napkins
  • Box for leftover cake, if not provided by bakery/vendor or is homemade
  • Trash cans**
  • Emergency Kit (see blog/workshop #25 for my “must haves”)

Tasks:

  • Including yourselves and vendors in your guest count
  • A parking plan for elderly or disabled guests that can’t walk too far
  • A plan to get the bride/groom home/to hotel at the end of the night
  • A plan to get the bride/groom back to their vehicle the next day
  • A plan to get cards or gifts home
  • A plan to light outdoor spaces, including parking area**
  • Disposal of trash**
  • A plan to clean up at the end of the night
  • A plan for rental returns (including the groom’s tux of leaving for honeymoon)
  • Rain/heat plan
  • Keeping track of gifts received (and who they are from) for writing thank you notes

**These notes usually only apply to weddings on private properties or parks

Helping YOU say ‘I-DO’,

Your WedUcator